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May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ? Detailing would be helpful, (such as now bi, and desire to be gay) ; ( I am trans...), (I want sex change),  etc., as you  please!

There is no need to detail, and you can as you wish in your post, and posts can be done more than once, but only one time for polling. Polite and civil posts would be great!

If you are a Guest on Bettermost, you have to become a member, (temporarily or more than that is up to you, of course).


You may also ask question(s) if you like. And if you prefer I or someone else to try to answer you, that's OK too!

Have fun ! Take care, au revoir, and hugs!


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Don't be shy...

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As you might suspect Artiste I am a homosexual male but I
do admire a great pair of REAL female legs in heels.

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Merci TampaTalon^">!

I thank you for your post and is  this the right word: its candor ! ? Is it frankness with a sense of humour ; since at my age, word come to mind but I ask myself what does it mean ?

Somehow you made me laught happily by using that expression:
   I    do admire a great pair of REAL female legs in heels.           

May I ask you what makes you admire a real female legs in heels ?

Do you wonder like I do, is that why maybe that gays like Marilyn Monroe in Some LIKE IT HOT, was that the tile of that movie with Tony Curtis, and Jack Lemmon? Or was it that the two actors were in women's clothes? Especially which one in good heels and legs?

Did you vote?

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Artiste,
         The best way I can put this is that I love ice cream.
My favorite flavour just happens to be male. :)

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Merci tampatalon !

Does that mean that you are a homosexual ?

Am I the only homosexual on Bettermost?

Au revoir,
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I answered "Other" since I am bisexual. I love ice cream...all varieties!!

On the subject of legs, it seems like it gets harder and harder to see a nice set of legs on either gender these days, have you noticed? Being athletic helps...and high heels help too! Although most of the time when I see a woman teetering on heels it looks rather pathetic. My favorite body part is the neck, on man or woman, doesn't matter.
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I'm a straight woman, and I love necks (and shoulders and hands) best, myself.  Eyes are important, too.  It's good to have at least one.

Not a big ice cream fan, though, because I have sensitive teeth.  I'll once in a while indulge in a small dish of butter pecan or black raspberry at the mall, just 'cause it's so yummy.
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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #8 on: November 04, 2008, 06:56:19 pm »
Has this changed because of the election ?  Or did you dare change your sexual orientation because of THE election ?

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #9 on: November 06, 2008, 07:07:16 am »
I'm a straight woman, and I love necks (and shoulders and hands) best, myself.  Eyes are important, too.  It's good to have at least one.

Not a big ice cream fan, though, because I have sensitive teeth.  I'll once in a while indulge in a small dish of butter pecan or black raspberry at the mall, just 'cause it's so yummy.
I had ta budinsky. I love black rasberry! We used to pick tons on them & freeze them when I lived in
Western Pennsylvania and we made rasberry deserts of all kinds during the winter.

Yum

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #10 on: November 11, 2008, 06:36:31 pm »
More from members ?

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #11 on: November 14, 2008, 12:07:40 am »
Are most persons hiding their orientation ? Don't be shy ! Do tell please !

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #12 on: November 19, 2008, 08:36:20 am »
Heterosexual female. But like someone who attended the Brokie gathering in Sweden said to me; "I was heterosexual until I met my girlfriend", so who knows about the future?

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #13 on: November 19, 2008, 12:07:49 pm »
Merci buffymon !

May I admire your candide as ingenuous post as I know that you will guide yourself and other(s) will help you too !

Hope that the word candide os OK as it's the first that came to my mind !


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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #14 on: November 19, 2008, 12:56:55 pm »
You merit flowers too for that !

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #15 on: December 31, 2008, 07:36:44 pm »
Merci!

Thanks for answering.

I am glad that some members on Bettermost are honest...
since being frank about this is important!

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #16 on: December 31, 2008, 07:40:12 pm »
bi-sexual female
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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #17 on: January 01, 2009, 01:34:37 pm »
gay male


Tell him when l come up to him and ask to play the record, l'm gonna say: ''Voulez-vous jouer ce disque?''
'Voulez-vous, will you kiss my dick?'
Will you play my record? One-track mind!

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #18 on: January 01, 2009, 05:48:04 pm »
   Very heterosexual female.   Why does it matter?   I have the same thing to say that Jake says.  I have never been
attracted to a person of the same sex, but if it was to happen.  I would not be adverse to it.  This just seems to be
one more way to put people in teeny tiny boxes. 

   You ask us a question, may I ask you a question?   What is it that makes you have such a dire need to know this information.?
« Last Edit: January 02, 2009, 05:50:03 am by ifyoucantfixit »



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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #19 on: January 02, 2009, 02:53:19 am »
Gee Artiste, I'm surprised you didnt ask for photos showing our favourite positions........guess when you want extra "jollys" you will ask for them....
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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #20 on: January 02, 2009, 09:16:13 pm »
gay male

Chuck, I am shocked cugino!!  :o :o :o

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #21 on: January 03, 2009, 02:02:01 am »
Straight female. Having said that, I would never say never, as you just do not know what the future holds.

I am puzzled why you have created this poll. Is it not the opinions of Bettermostians which are important, not their sexual orientation. Why attempt to fit all into a little box.

We all know we are pretty fond of each other, ( very fond of some people ) and a certain movie. So we are all kindred spirits on one level, that's what brought us all here.
 I have never felt defined by my sexuality, and even if I had an affair with a woman, I do not see how that would fundamentally change me.It could be a sex or love thing, but I would still be me, with all my idiosyncrasies and quirks.

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #22 on: January 05, 2009, 10:47:07 pm »
Chuck, I am shocked cugino!!  :o :o :o

I know!

lmao!!! 


Tell him when l come up to him and ask to play the record, l'm gonna say: ''Voulez-vous jouer ce disque?''
'Voulez-vous, will you kiss my dick?'
Will you play my record? One-track mind!

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #23 on: January 08, 2009, 06:18:49 am »
I am puzzled why you have created this poll. Is it not the opinions of Bettermostians which are important, not their sexual orientation. Why attempt to fit all into a little box.
 
IMO there my be something more here than the sex box or what we sleep swith. My sexuality has dictated
my life. Like Ennis & Jack many decisions have been made and are still made
because of this box. Even in death it determines that we must have two separate
tombstones, rather than one big one like civil or married partners.

sigh.......someday hopefully are kind will be completely free.

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #24 on: January 08, 2009, 04:07:02 pm »



             Steve, I dont see the need for two tombstones.  Its your own business, nobody elses.



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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #25 on: January 08, 2009, 05:43:44 pm »


             Steve, I dont see the need for two tombstones.  Its your own business, nobody elses.

Back there, adouble tomebstone would surely be desicrated.
In Broke back east Ohio, we don't exists, the general rule is
be invisible.

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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #26 on: January 08, 2009, 06:38:21 pm »




        So sad    :'(



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Re: May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ?
« Reply #27 on: February 09, 2009, 07:50:14 pm »
More about invisibles or visibles??

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