I've been very fortunate this year. My mom, who had broken her ankle the year before, and whom we were very worried about because of her age, has made a fairly thorough recovery. She has moved to a new town, and though she has yet to really make friends, she's doing pretty okay.
My beloved younger sister had a baby, and he's healthy, and my sister adores him. I sewed for the first time in years, making a baby quilt for him that my sister and I both love (and that RouxB consulted on a time or two).
My daughter grew out of being a grabber who didn't want to share when other little kids were over, to being a friend who is growing in her joy of sharing. She is growing in her reading skills, which thrills me, and is also working on cartwheels. I am reduced to tears when I think of how grateful I am for her health and happiness.
My father in law and sister in law and husband have become ready to move my mother in law to an alzheimer' care facility. My father in law and sister in law, in particular, have worn themselves down to nubbins taking care of her at home, for the 13 effin year since she was diagnosed. I am grateful that they will soon have huge relief.
I've had a mix of a year. Some very good - I made peace with my firm commitment to homeschool, and am finding a lot of fun and inspiring support for that. My housekeeping has improved tenfold, due to this commitment, and because we've been having friends over again more. After a kind of parched period where I lost a few friendships that had been meaningful, but weren't working well, I've been developing new ones with some very creative, hope-inspiring, funny, delightful women I am growing to love. Some of my Brokie friendships are contunuing to grow, and though I didn't go on any Brokie adventures this year, some came to me, including three Brokies coming to my house for the weekend of my birthday, which was wonderful. I still walk by a spot in my house where we hung out one evening in particular, and smile. And I have begun being able to read and do projects again, now that Mini-Meno doesn't require constant total attention. I joined a book club a year ago, and I learned to use my sewing machine and loved it. I look forward to figuring out my next project.
But I weigh more than I ever have, and don't seem ready to launch into any kind of action to change that. I have developed asthma and breathing allergies to various pretty common things. But I'm learning how to manage those. On the plus side, the plantar fascitis that crippled me for nearly a year (including at the 2007 Estes Park BBQ, where I couldn't even walk to the breakfast house in the mornings when the pain was the worst) is just about gone, and I am enjoying walking again.
Sometimes having a snapshot of a dream is really useful to me, and I have one: I picture having a small party, here at our house, with all the doors to all the rooms open, and people welcome to flow through anywhere, because it all looks so nice. Those of you who are domestically challenged might understand the magnitude of that.
I want to continue to make choices on a moment by moment basis that fit with "reduce/reuse/recycle." Especially composting. Here in Seattle, we now can put our kitchen food waste in our yard waste containers, and I still haven't gotten it together to do that. But I want to soon. I have some good friends who are wonderful models that way.
BetterMost is one of the foundations of my daily life. I check in as early as I can at the beginning of my day, and like to again near my bedtime. Some days I'm lucky enough to be on in the middle of the day too. During the last few months, difficulties here have occasionally been greater than the pleasure for me, but only because I let it. Some days, when I only have half an hour to spend here, 29 1/2 of those minutes are taken up with administrative stuff. So I'm learning to delegate more. And there are wonderful people here who love to help others, so the delegating has been a win for all, I think. I want to thank so many of you for making this place so fun, so interesting, so lovely, so inspiring, and pleasurable.
Happy 2009!