Hmmmmm. Um, yeah. I know the feeling. One of my coworkers has said a couple of times to me recently "GET therapy. PLEASE." Perhaps I should take his advice.
No, don't, there's nothing wrong with you! In the meantime, before we actually speak to Jake in person, it's a good pastime! I think you could be right about your interpretation of the words. God, I was so impressed with Jake at Oprah, what he said about the non-innocent name-calling (something that bothers me immensely about men) being so true.