From Jess' comments at The Retreat, it's pretty obvious that she is reading this thread. So I have one more thing to say then I'm done.
Jess was not made to leave because the mods didn't like her, she was made to leave for her repeated personal attacks on people, often driving them away from Bettermost completely (myself included). She was warned time and time again and yet chose to ignore those warnings.
As far as I'm concerned my grievances have nothing whatsoever to do with politics, or personal disagreements or dislikes.
Posts have been taken from here for the sole purpose of mocking and ridiculing the poster, in the most cruel and cowardly way.
I can't quote them directly anymore because the offending remarks have been removed but calling Gary a "Nasty boy" "Flower girl" "The token victim" "Naif" "Clever manipulator" "'tard", to name but a few, is horrible and really rather pathetic.
We don't all have to be friends with one another ... that would be asking for the impossible ... but I would hope that our basic common decency would stop us from taking delight in ripping people to shreds.
And I'm done ....
ps.... a note to you androphiles .... being bitchy and catty about other people behind their backs is very ........... "girly" 
And after that childish remark I really am done 
Well said Susie.
The fact that someone can't figure out why they were asked to leave a forums is sad in a way.
But, that is the only way some people know how to communicate, unfortunately.
They will turn around one day, and be all alone though. Such negative thoughts always brings
negative results. I learned that the hard way.
I always thought the measure of a man was based on strength, kindness and respect, not
how they dress or speak.
The behavior is 2nd grade level and comes from some misplaced anger.
I honestly sat there, while reading there comments, shaking my head.
What grown man calls people 'tards?
I am sure our posts will continue to be read and discussed in the same manner.
To that I say..... go for it.
Oh, I will say, I have NEVER seen Gary lose his cool here, even tho there were many times
he had the right to, and posts such hateful things about anyone. Ever.
Even when we are exchanging PMs.
That is the measure of a man.
Good luck y'all !!!!
