I forget... what symbolized mind-numbingly hot kissing again?
That would be the drool. Oh wait -- that's MY drool.
I guess my feeling about the symbolism is... well, the movie does a great job of going straight to my heart, bypassing my brain. And the visual images play a role in that... but not the kind of very intellectual role that "symbolism" implies to me.
Or maybe I'm still grumpy because I hated high school English lit classes.
Well, maybe I still love it because I loved high-school English, in fact used to be a college English lit major, and BBM has more symbolism than The Great Gatsby.
The movie goes straight to my heart, too. It did the first time I saw it, even though back then the closest I came to understanding any symbols was suspecting that the dead sheep might stand for something and that Lureen probably wasn't just talking about dancing.
It wasn't until I got to imdb that I realized that snow and tents and fans and water and elk meant anything more than the obvious. (OK, so I was a college lit major who switched halfway through to journalism.
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Personally, I really enjoy the intellectual challenge and reward of analyzing the symbols. I don't think you need to do it to appreciate the movie. I don't even think you need to agree they're there in order to appreciate the movie (hell, I can think of people -- not you, Mel -- who routinely scoff at symbol interpretations and have been involved in these boards longer than I have). I don't think you have to know that "Jack = wind" and then notice the huge fan on Ennis' bed at the end in order to figure out how Ennis is feeling in that scene.
But for me it's fun, partly in a way that a crossword puzzle is fun, partly because it deepens my appreciation of the movie's brilliance, partly because it's interesting to see how great writers and directors handle symbols, partly because I find it fascinating and subtle and astounding. Noticing a new one that works is like finding a buried treasure. I would put noticing all the mirrors and echoes and bookends in the same category.
Still, however fun, it's almost like a sideline thing to my appreciation of the movie's emotional impact.