Perhaps an interesting topic for some, but it's way off topic in this thread. I would suggest you start a new topic and see if there are any takers.
Brad
You are quite new to BetterMost so perhaps you do not know the way topic threads move and often focus on one particular aspect of the original question--in fact that moving around is the norm here.
I sense antagonism in your posting. I have come to see that this has no place in BetterMost. Old timers here can testify that my rhetoric has softened considerably since I first arrived. If discussions about sex--gay or straight--make you uncomfortable, perhaps this is not the best website for you. This website has as its reason for being Brokeback Mountain--the film, the story, and everything connected to it. At the heart of BBM is the story of the love affair between 2 men. It should not surprise you that many of the subsidiary topic sites would treat this subject. We live here, and will not be bullied into leaving.
Brian,
You misunderstood my motives. I was not bored by your coming out story, in fact I want to comment on it at another time. Please do not be offended or think that I was in any way discounting your experience. It is so easy in website postings to come off sounding harsh when that was not intended. The "bears" help a little in this regard but sometimes ill-considered language slips by. Sorry if that is what happened here.