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What fans my flame
« on: April 06, 2006, 07:41:41 am »
Hmmm?
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #1 on: April 06, 2006, 08:15:03 am »
What's a pet pig?! Hunh?

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #2 on: April 06, 2006, 08:18:32 am »
Cute with a hideous smell!  They NEVER put the seat down!  A sorta need to be looked after type....hunh!
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #3 on: April 06, 2006, 10:44:28 am »
Love 'you may only select up to 8 options'!
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #4 on: April 06, 2006, 02:59:48 pm »
 ;)   Who am I to limit choice?
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #5 on: April 07, 2006, 12:05:53 am »
I'd say with this group it's no surprise that humour has the most votes. 

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #6 on: April 07, 2006, 07:46:01 am »
I am so unoriginal! Picked humour first, but eyes a close second.
There were actually 4 persons that picked 'butt'. That gave me a giggle! I prefer the other side. :angel:
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #7 on: April 07, 2006, 11:47:22 pm »
It's always been humor intellect and eyes first with me...OF course my mamma raised no fools so a nice face, bod and butt would be equally appreciated as welll! LOL ::)

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #8 on: April 07, 2006, 11:51:01 pm »
It's always been humor intellect and eyes first with me...OF course my mamma raised no fools so a nice face, bod and butt would be equally appreciated as welll! LOL ::)

Agreed Vic.  A great sense of humour, good intellect and kind eyes can do wonders for an average bod/butt, but even the most amazing ass in the world can't help a guy with no sense of humour or minimal brain cells. 
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2006, 04:01:16 pm »
It's always been humor intellect and eyes first with me...OF course my mamma raised no fools so a nice face, bod and butt would be equally appreciated as welll! LOL ::)

A woman after my own heart.... completely agree here as well. The eyes are the most communicative part of the human body, followed by hands and then body posture.
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #10 on: April 11, 2006, 03:00:38 pm »
Er,,Jack's belt buckle getting unbuckled?

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #11 on: May 08, 2006, 09:18:51 pm »
Humor, Eyes and Intellect all the way!!!
A woman after my own heart.... completely agree here as well. The eyes are the most communicative part of the human body, followed by hands and then body posture.
 
I agree!  about the hand thing, thought I was the only one.
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #12 on: May 08, 2006, 09:39:55 pm »
I have found that initial eye contact has worked the best for another person who was interested in me.

There are a couple of proverbs, "The eye is the lamp of the body" and "The eye is the window to the soul."

It doesn't matter how great a guy looks from a distance; if he does not look me in the eyes when he talks to me, I am not interested.

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #13 on: May 09, 2006, 02:07:02 am »
eyes are priceless, intellect makes me drool, but homor I will rmrmber on my deathbed.
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #14 on: May 12, 2006, 12:07:24 pm »
Eyes, face, bod, intellect, humour, butt...all good stuff. That's why I had to select all of them. But I'm most immediately drawn to a man's face, and intellect and humour can and certainly will deepen my appreciation. I came very close to the cusp of falling in love with a friend of mine (straight, alas), to a large degree because of his superlatively brilliant mind.

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #15 on: May 12, 2006, 12:31:12 pm »
All appearance-related characteristics go a long way with me, but only on a short-term basis. For the long run, I would require humor and intellect. For the REALLY long run, all of the above would be nice. Pet pig I could do without.

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #16 on: May 13, 2006, 04:01:03 pm »
Am I the only one who can't stand bread crumbs on the butter?   I swear, if someone was was gorgeous, with beautiful eyes and a drop dead perfect butt, who made me laugh and explained the laws of physics as though they were explaining how to join a nut to a bolt, but they left bread crumbs on the butter, I'd have to throw them into the street.  I mean really, if they leave crumbs on the butter, can you imagine what they'd leave everywhere else?!

....then again, perhaps I could just buy a second tub and fix a combination lock to it!
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #17 on: June 20, 2006, 07:02:27 pm »
Eyes, Face, Bod and Humor.

I didn't pick intelect though. There is something about a slightly dingy guy that turns me on. It's cute.... in a way.

I love big eyes, a baby face and of course a nice body.

I like thick luxurious hair too! I definately would have picked that one if it was on the poll! :)
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #18 on: June 29, 2006, 10:56:37 am »
Humour, intellect, eyes, blah, blah, blah...

But what really turns me on is a smooth, toned back - especially the inward curve at the base of the spine :P
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #19 on: June 29, 2006, 11:09:20 am »
Eyes, Face, Bod and Humor.

I love big eyes, a baby face and of course a nice body.

I like thick luxurious hair too! I definately would have picked that one if it was on the poll! :)

So, let's see...  Who has all of those qualities in spades...?  The name escapes me now...
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #20 on: June 30, 2006, 08:21:14 pm »
Humor is the biggest one. Also intellect, face, and eyes.

Am I the only one who can't stand bread crumbs on the butter?

No you're not! I hate that! My mom always used to do that at our house, drove me crazy!

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #21 on: July 05, 2006, 08:23:44 pm »
Humour, intellect, eyes, blah, blah, blah...

But what really turns me on is a smooth, toned back - especially the inward curve at the base of the spine :P

yum, that upside-down triangle that is formed just at the spot.
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #22 on: July 05, 2006, 08:36:45 pm »
yum, that upside-down triangle that is formed just at the spot.

Starboardlight, you're talking my language! I love that triangle shape that swimmers have  :P. Male or female, I'm not fussy - back's do it for me. For a mighty fine example click below - I think you'll enjoy it!

http://bettermost.net/forum/index.php?topic=1113.msg52248#msg52248

The front ain't bad either... :P

http://bettermost.net/forum/index.php?topic=1113.msg52254#msg52254

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #23 on: July 05, 2006, 08:42:44 pm »
yep. mighty fine example he is.
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #24 on: August 14, 2008, 09:47:05 am »
I voted for face and humor.   ;D


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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #25 on: August 16, 2008, 11:32:09 pm »
What fans my flame?? Definatley the pet pig!  Actually that spider-pig in The Simpons movie turned me on!
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #26 on: August 16, 2008, 11:58:59 pm »

How did I miss this old poll for so long?  I picked the top 4 on the list - eyes, face, bod, intellect.


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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #27 on: August 19, 2008, 09:21:57 am »
OK, I'll be honest! Face and Butt! (not necessarily in that order)  ;)   ;D
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #28 on: August 19, 2008, 09:41:22 am »
You havent got my favourite part of a mans body.........

I love a good solid broad back, preferably tanned.....

But on meeting someone for the first time, i look for a sense of humour......
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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #29 on: August 21, 2008, 10:24:45 pm »
I missed this one as well. Simply has to be eyes for me, partly as they are my business, also they really are the window to the soul.Mouths can lie, if you look closely enough, eyes never do.
The person also has to have an intellect so I can argue, I mean discuss things that interest me.I simply cannot bear it when people just agree with me,it seems condescending.They also need a sense of humour,particularly the ability to laugh at themselves.
However one of my other big turn ons, is the sight of slim wrists at the end of a shirt cuff, and long slim fingers. If a man is an Adonis look alike but has short stubby fingers, then I'm out the door.
I think that's why Heath seemed so perfect to me,he had amazing eyes, an obvious intellect and sensitivity, and those beautiful fingers with quite often some form of bracelet on his wrist.

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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #30 on: August 22, 2008, 10:36:36 am »
However one of my other big turn ons, is the sight of slim wrists at the end of a shirt cuff, and long slim fingers. If a man is an Adonis look alike but has short stubby fingers, then I'm out the door.


ah, you are not the first person I've heard say that.  One of my close friends loves a guy with big hands and long fingers.  Her husband has huge hands and long fingers.


For me, I think a guy looks sexy with a plain tshirt, blue jeans, and bare feet.


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Re: What fans my flame
« Reply #31 on: August 22, 2008, 07:33:28 pm »

ah, you are not the first person I've heard say that.  One of my close friends loves a guy with big hands and long fingers.  Her husband has huge hands and long fingers.




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