I have grown to like Jeeves a lot but I opt for Dupree finding another one at Red Stallion. As we have seen, Jeeves will almost certainly have sex with Dupree if he so decided, but if after having sex with Jeeves, Dupree found out he's not into men or Jeeves is not the man for him, I'm sure Jeeves will accept it just like a gentleman but I think the hurt will be very deep. The more considerate and tender he shows to Dupree, the deeper he will be hurt. So, I'd rather Dupree find another one if he's not sure about his feeling for Jeeves.
BTW, David, I'm sorry to hear about your ex-Ennis. It must hurt a lot. Every time I read about a story of an Ennis, I felt so sorry that Ennises still exist in the modern world and people are complaining Ennis not brave enough to live with Jack back in 70s and 80s. Good luck, David.