Yes, I went to see it for the last time yesterday in the theatre... Best 50 cents I ever spent...
There was a family in there with young children, and I mean young. I'm thinking like, "Don't you people realize this is rated R for a reason?" Anyway, I warned them shortly before the first tent scene that it might not be appropriate for the younger children, so the mom led the kids out just before it then came back.
The parents also left during the first tent scene, rather noisily I might add, so I managed to miss the hand holding...
The DVD will be arriving today (one of them anyway, I'm still looking for a British DVD in Region 1 Format.. lol, and where the heck is my poster?)
I also didn't see Ennis mouth "I love you" when he holds the two shirts. He just seemed to be breathing heavily, open mouthed, as if in disbelief and painful memory.
Speaking of the two shirts, this has probably already been pointed out, but I find it strangely compelling that the blood stains were at the wrist, just where the nails would have been driven in during the Roman crucifixion. Granted they're not on both sleeves, but it was just some strange thing I wanted to point out.