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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #170 on: February 25, 2009, 07:24:55 pm »
Merci Br. Patrick!

Wow what a surprise !!!

You must think that I am SUPERMAN? Is that what he did?

Or you might be such a man now being super spirited? ha! ha!

What does Lent do? People have more sex and less bashing of others?

No bashing of gays men  then?
Hopefully so, since straights are keeping busy with their wives during Lent ! ???

Any other news about Lent?

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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #171 on: February 25, 2009, 10:02:42 pm »
Any other news about Lent?

Only that the word means 'spring' and everything renews itself in spring.  The old is replaced by the new.  A good time for taking personal inventory on your personality, possessions, and priorities.  Not to give oneself guilt but to free oneself from unnecessary ideas, unimportant involvement with things AND to really LOVE each other.  I realize it is extremely difficult to love a person such as a Gay Basher but that is what that person needs or else he wouldn't be taking his personal inadequacies out on other people.

And have some fun too..

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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #172 on: February 25, 2009, 10:52:06 pm »
Merci beaucoup Br. Patrick!

I enjoy your post!

May that be so, as you described!

And no more gay bashing, since sex is better !
There is no need to bash gays just because they are/we are homosexuals!!

Straight men are homosexuals and don't know it or refuse it??

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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #173 on: March 01, 2009, 07:27:47 am »
Straight men are homosexuals and don't know it or refuse it??

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The homeless "straight" guy that I sheltered for 5 years NEEDED to be loved, admired and so forth from Gay men.  Part of him wasn't straight and he knew I knew it.   It's the people with just the tinest bit of gayness in themselves who bash gays.  They are not in the closet, they are in a VAULT!   So they compartmentalize that part of themselves and project their nonacceptance of it on healthy Gay people.

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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #174 on: March 01, 2009, 07:05:55 pm »
Merci Frère Patrick !

You say:
      The homeless "straight" guy that I sheltered for 5 years NEEDED to be loved, admired and so forth from Gay men.  Part of him wasn't straight and he knew I knew it.   It's the people with just the tinest bit of gayness in themselves who bash gays.  They are not in the closet, they are in a VAULT!   So they compartmentalize that part of themselves and project their nonacceptance of it on healthy Gay people.
                   

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Brother Patrick, I can see what you say! And I like your word: volt !

But why such person fight gays?


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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #175 on: March 02, 2009, 12:31:12 am »
But why such person fight gays?

Primarily, hatred of themselves that they have repressed into their subconscious.  BUT the feelings are there and if THEY see a male that 'sets off' this hidden part of themselves, they go into a rage.   Psychologists used to call these people Latent Homosexuals as this thread begins with.

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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #176 on: March 05, 2009, 07:27:00 pm »
Merci Br. Patrick !

You say:
      Primarily, hatred of themselves that they have repressed into their subconscious.  BUT the feelings are there and if THEY see a male that 'sets off' this hidden part of themselves, they go into a rage.   Psychologists used to call these people Latent Homosexuals as this thread begins with.

           


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Br. Patrick, I can see that totally as you say, or partially.

To me non-acceptance of self and humanity,
it's a major concern in civilisations to-day,
(and will get worse),
but how can that be
1- prevented,
2-modified,
or
3-not-at-all become so that rage or murderous state???

1- Concerning prevention, maybe the free world is becoming  to accept or like homosexuals? -
But there still remains many civilisations that need to be educated about gays being humans like any other human, and even in ours? So any prevention can be done?
So schools and what else are important for that education???

2- Regarding modified, even when one is placed into prison as that person murdered a gay man, there is
no service to teach that gays are acceptable in society? So those murderers of gay men continue to do so, once out of prison?

3- If one can see more on TV, etc., about bashing and hatred and how to see that and combat that to bash and to hate thoughts maybe leading to violent actions, then maybe there would be no harm done to gays?

Your posts and that of others who can post here too, are always welcome and helping,

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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #177 on: March 06, 2009, 12:48:41 am »
3- If one can see more on TV, etc., about bashing and hatred and how to see that and combat that to bash and to hate thoughts maybe leading to violent actions, then maybe there would be no harm done to gays?

Your posts and that of others who can post here too, are always welcome and helping,

au revoir,
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I know I said this before but it bears repeating.  The US Government has an AD Council through which they present issues relative to the times we live in.   These 15-30 second TV spots are put randomly into Broadcasters schedules.  I saw an AD which said "That's so gay" is offensive.  They then showed a women wearing an unusual blouse.  They said "You wouldn't say, "That's so top."  They implied the rudeness of the situaltion.  Then they simply said, "STOP IT!"  The voices were teenagers and it was well done and effective.

Can't remember which Network showed this but I KNOW it wasn't LOGO.  I felt so proud when I heard it.

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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #178 on: March 06, 2009, 01:30:54 am »
I've seen a few of those ads too and I'm glad they are putting them out there for others to see. It's very offensive to me when I hear people say "That's so gay!" as if somehow being gay is bad or stupid. It's offensive.

It's nice to see you online tonight Brother Patrick! :D

I hope you had a very nice day.
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Re: No more Gay Bashing in 2007+
« Reply #179 on: March 06, 2009, 07:39:35 am »
I've seen a few of those ads too and I'm glad they are putting them out there for others to see. It's very offensive to me when I hear people say "That's so gay!" as if somehow being gay is bad or stupid. It's offensive.

It's nice to see you online tonight Brother Patrick! :D

I hope you had a very nice day.

Same to you, my friend!

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Lean on me, let our hearts beat in time,
Feel strength from the hands that have held you so long.
Who cares where we go on this rugged old road
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...Cause I know - A love that will never grow old.

Gustavo Santaolalla & Bernie Taupin