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TOTW 19/07: Why couldn't Jack learn to just be happy with things as they were af
Artiste:
Thanks Katie77!
Your description is revealing to me, plus you finalize with this about Ennis and Jack: The last confrontation, was the time when they both spat out all the gut wrenching emotions that had been building up in both of them over all those years....the truth was, they both wanted the same thing, both felt the same things, but never had the ways or means of making it happen.
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Katie: you really think that they never had the ways? About nor the means?? I tend to think that Jack had the means to bring Ennis (at least some), because money wise since he had worked on his wive's father's bussiness; could he have been too poor? Or his wife would have taken all the money if he had asked for a divorse; I know gay men who suffered that as their wives took all $, one was a university professor and his wives took the two houses!! Of course straight couplew, are too difficult, like one of my sisters lost one house after another, all paid she had, because her husband acted badly and she is still paying lawyers and is soon to be in a wheelchair the rest of her life and maybe live on the street!!
Jack did think of some ways: 1- he wanted to continue to help his parents by having stock there; 2- plus, he desired that Ennis and him lived on it in a cabin nearby?? If that was so, then Jack thought of some ways, yes? Plus Jack with that (those 2 ways), could therefore continue to hope and to plan, not learning to just be happy with the ways things were then... since his ways were reasonable and hopeful!!
May I further ask if Jack had also another way: his parents did like the idea that Jack would have brought Ennis to be and work on the Twist parents ranch, right?
Confusing? Help me out Katie and others, please.
Hugs!! Merry Christmas with those you desire to be with and Gay Holidays!!
Awaiting your replies... as you wish!!
jstephens9:
--- Quote from: Katie77 on December 24, 2007, 05:15:12 pm ---Once Alma and Ennis divorced, though, I think Jack was reasonable in assuming that now, Ennis would go with him......the fact that Ennis wrote to Jack, telling him of the divorce, was probably even more of an indication of that, to Jack....so when Ennis was still reluctant and refused Jack's plan for them, that was when Jack knew, that it was not only Alma and the girls, that had stopped Ennis, it was still the paranoia and fear of the two men together union....Jack knew then, that Ennis was never going to go with him....Ennis had really let him down.....
I think, up until that time, Jack had stayed "faithfull" to the union with Ennis, but after that, he probably gave up talking about it and as we know, looked for other ways to ease his frustrations, both sexually and emotionally.
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I definitely believe you are right that he did stay faithful to the union with Ennis until the let down after the divorce. In the movie that is when they show him going to Mexico. There was never a time before that they we see Jack being unfaithful to the union. At that point in time I really think Jack pretty much lost all hope that anything would change.
Artiste:
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southendmd:
Regarding Jack's being "faithful" to Ennis, the short story differs: in the Motel Siesta, Ennis wonders aloud about whether he's gay:
(Ennis) "...I never had no thoughts a doin it with another guy except I sure wrang it out a hunderd times thinkin about you. You do it with other guys? Jack?"
"Shit no," said Jack, who had been riding more than bulls, not rolling his own. "You know that. Old Brokeback got us good and it sure ain't over..."
In the film, it's possible that Jack has "let go" of Ennis after that summer together, but he probably doesn't remain celibate. We see him flirt with Jimbo, at least.
delalluvia:
--- Quote from: southendmd on December 26, 2007, 02:08:29 pm ---Regarding Jack's being "faithful" to Ennis, the short story differs: in the Motel Siesta, Ennis wonders aloud about whether he's gay:
(Ennis) "...I never had no thoughts a doin it with another guy except I sure wrang it out a hunderd times thinkin about you. You do it with other guys? Jack?"
"Shit no," said Jack, who had been riding more than bulls, not rolling his own. "You know that. Old Brokeback got us good and it sure ain't over..."
In the film, it's possible that Jack has "let go" of Ennis after that summer together, but he probably doesn't remain celibate. We see him flirt with Jimbo, at least.
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I think once they got back together, Jack was faithful. Before the Motel Siesta, they didn't even know if they were ever going to see each other again, so I can't say they considered themselves in a relationship then. After that, I believe Jack was faithful up until Ennis' divorce.
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