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As Easter nears, no Easter in Annie's story or the BM movie?? But??
Artiste:
Thanks optom!
May I diifer now.
Many straight men do have sex back door with their wives!
In Ennis case, if he did not enjoy sex with Alma, then why have so many kids??
Many gay men want sex with a lady, as well as men!! And they love both!!
Once Alma wanted out of sex, Ennis had no choice, right? No matter which door he would have used!!
Right?
Hugs!
optom3:
--- Quote from: Artiste on March 24, 2008, 11:25:19 pm ---Thanks optom!
May I diifer now.
Many straight men do have sex back door with their wives!
In Ennis case, if he did not enjoy sex with Alma, then why have so many kids??
Many gay men want sex with a lady, as well as men!! And they love both!!
Once Alma wanted out of sex, Ennis had no choice, right? No matter which door he would have used!!
Right?
Hugs!
--- End quote ---
O.K here come the typos cause I am laughing so much.I agree plenty of straight couples have sex through the back door,in Greece it is jokingly referred to as the greek contraception, it is so popular.I think Ennis only had 2 kids, not so many I think.Also wasnt it Ennis who decided to opt out of sex rather than use a rubber.I think Alma was still willing but did not want any more kids,as she thought Ennis could not support them.I still think he breathed a sigh of relief.After all if he still really wanted sex with Allma he could have still used the back door,no risk of kids that way,and no rubbers either.the no rubbers was an excuse or get out of it clause for him.
I also do not think he had a particulrly high sex drive.
I do concede gay men can love sex with both sexes,particularly if they have a high sex drive.I think for Ennis sex was very much linked to love,more so than with Jack.But maybe I am just a romantic.
Artiste:
Thanks optom!
In what you say, you bring up something new:
O.K here come the typos cause I am laughing so much.I agree plenty of straight couples have sex through the back door,in Greece it is jokingly referred to as the greek contraception, it is so popular.I think Ennis only had 2 kids, not so many I think.Also wasnt it Ennis who decided to opt out of sex rather than use a rubber.I think Alma was still willing but did not want any more kids,as she thought Ennis could not support them.I still think he breathed a sigh of relief.After all if he still really wanted sex with Allma he could have still used the back door,no risk of kids that way,and no rubbers either.the no rubbers was an excuse or get out of it clause for him.
I also do not think he had a particulrly high sex drive.
I do concede gay men can love sex with both sexes,particularly if they have a high sex drive.I think for Ennis sex was very much linked to love,more so than with Jack.But maybe I am just a romantic.
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Fiona (optom), you bring up sex drive!! Maybe that is why, Ennis not having much of a sex drive: that we do NOT see Ennis and Jack not having sex anymore ?? In the BM movie!!
Hugs!!
Front-Ranger:
--- Quote from: Artiste on March 24, 2008, 11:25:19 pm ---
In Ennis case, if he did not enjoy sex with Alma, then why have so many kids??
--- End quote ---
Because he wanted to prove to the world that he was a potent man, and the visible proof of that is children.
Artiste:
Thanks Front-Ranger!
I was just puzzled by your word: potent!! I did think immediately: Why not just sex with Alma, his wife!!
And then, re-seing your words associated with: children!! So, I remember now that Ennis loved his children!!
So, you are right!!
So, that is Ennis Easter gift: life: children!! ??
Au revoir,
hugs!
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