Thank you everyone for your good wishes.....I know you do care and I do appreciate it.
Yes when something like this happens, you realize how lucky we are when our kids are healthy. I often think of some of the traumas and stress we went through with our kids, but it fades into significance when I see what Joy has been going through this past month with Danni.
Another friend of mine, went through a similar thing when her daughter turned 13. Her daughter was diagnosed with diabetes, and she spent weeks in hospital too, while they managed it and got some control over it.
As with the chrohns, no cure, and life long symptoms and management. The hope is, that they will find a cure for both diseases sometime during these kids lifetime.