I watched it again on Friday (dvd), and for the first time, the flashback scene hit me most. I wonder why it never did before (but I can guess: I am VEEEERYYYY good at lying to myself, albeit involuntarily).
I have grasped the full meaning of BBM as far as I am concerned now. I need to act on it this time
Welcome to those who have just discovered BBM or have just been hit in a major, irreversible way!