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Sacrilege
serious crayons:
--- Quote from: Ellemeno on April 06, 2007, 08:37:30 pm ---Anyway, it's funny how much we ponder so many "What ifs" for Ennis and Jack. If it had been any other way it wouldn't have been BBM.
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So true! We can't help imagining a happier outcome. So we talk about, what if Jack had offered Ennis a ride in Signal, what if Ennis had invited Jack to hang out at his house in the post divorce scene ... If those things had come to pass, it would have been great for Jack and Ennis. But then Annie Proulx would have had to pick some other couple to write about ... :-\
David In Indy:
--- Quote from: Ellemeno on April 06, 2007, 08:23:56 pm ---
Wow, I didn't know most of that about you, David. Thanks for telling it. :-*
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Well, around here Clarissa, a gay cello, piano, and violin playing accountant who just happens to have a funeral director's license and a boyfriend who lives across the Atlantic isn't exactly the idea of a success story. Not in Hoosier terms anyway. But I'm glad you enjoyed it, and yeah, I AM happy! :D
serious crayons:
--- Quote from: David on April 07, 2007, 03:36:59 am ---Well, around here Clarissa, a gay cello, piano, and violin playing accountant who just happens to have a funeral director's license and a boyfriend who lives across the Atlantic isn't exactly the idea of a success story. Not in Hoosier terms anyway.
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Sounds pretty good to me, David! Except maybe the across-the-Atlantic part. That must be a pain.
HerrKaiser:
--- Quote from: injest on April 04, 2007, 08:45:37 pm ---I have had a bad week....so I am gonna put this out here and let YA'LL see how bad it has been!
Have you ever thought that maybe we are looking at the story the wrong way?? Maybe it IS about standing it??
That some dreams just aren't going to come true so we have to learn to deal with life without them...we have to face reality.
There comes a time that you just have to realize that you just don't have the ability to fulfill your dreams. So to continue beating your head against a stone wall is ridiculous and useless and robs you of living your life to the fullest....
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Thanks Injest for this topic. Anyone who has read most of my posts over the months here or on other boards knows (and I've gotten tons of flak!) I see the story/film in just this way for many reasons. No sacrilege at all. Life is not perfect; love that is not perfect is still love; and situations often do not allow for our first choices to be the ones we go with. I actually like that about life; we are quickly becoming a nation of spoiled children and the idea from the 80s that "you can have it all" is not good for the soul. Ennis, in particular, is a better man for his inner need to fulfill his responsibilities while balancing his other needs. His spirit was made strong from this and few people have the understanding of life that he has having done so, imo.
Scott6373:
--- Quote from: David on April 07, 2007, 03:36:59 am ---
Well, around here Clarissa, a gay cello, piano, and violin playing accountant who just happens to have a funeral director's license and a boyfriend who lives across the Atlantic isn't exactly the idea of a success story. Not in Hoosier terms anyway. But I'm glad you enjoyed it, and yeah, I AM happy! :D
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How did I never know this? I am married to one.
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