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[Artiste]

Thanks jstephens9!

I am not sure that the past is just past!!

May I say that that can be changed somehow?

Hugs!

[jstephens9]

How do you change the past? I think you can try to make amends concerning things that happened in the past, but when those amends are ignored there comes a point when it becomes tiresome. There comes a time when you begin to realize that maybe you shouldn't be bothering with the amends anyway.

[Artiste]

Thanks jstephens9!

You make me think!

Guess, we all make peace for the past, present and future?? !!

Hugs!

[injest]

How do you change the past? I think you can try to make amends concerning things that happened in the past, but when those amends are ignored there comes a point when it becomes tiresome. There comes a time when you begin to realize that maybe you shouldn't be bothering with the amends anyway.

there comes a time when you have to accept that you have done what you could. and it is no longer something you need to beat yourself up over. The other person has their own problems to deal with and you cant help them with those. All you CAN do is say you are sorry and let be....

{{{Jack}}}

sometimes time is what is needed...it IS hard though isn't it?

[jstephens9]

Yes it is very hard Jess, but you sure are right. There is only so much you can do and you can only say you're sorry so many times. After awhile it gets to the place where you just have to forget about it. But, like you say, it is hard especially when you are being very sincere about it and really trying to make things right. Things have a way of coming back to people who create situations like this between friends. I have seen that many times and I have a feeling I will see it again. So I will take your advice and quit beating myself over it. And now you want to talk about a terrific person. Well, that would be JESS 

[injest]

Yes it is very hard Jess, but you sure are right. There is only so much you can do and you can only say you're sorry so many times. After awhile it gets to the place where you just have to forget about it. But, like you say, it is hard especially when you are being very sincere about it and really trying to make things right. Things have a way of coming back to people who create situations like this between friends. I have seen that many times and I have a feeling I will see it again. So I will take your advice and quit beating myself over it. And now you want to talk about a terrific person. Well, that would be JESS 

oh I could name you fifteen or twenty that don't think so! 

but you are sweet to say so!

 

[jstephens9]

I guess we all have people that feel that way about us  Oh well, we have to be glad for those that don't feel that way, right

[injest]

I guess we all have people that feel that way about us  Oh well, we have to be glad for those that don't feel that way, right

that's RIGHT!

[jstephens9]

It's time for a shower, but I will be back a little later. Have a great morning Jess

[injest]

It's time for a shower, but I will be back a little later. Have a great morning Jess

oh sure!! I ask for details and you have to leave....spoilsport!!!

see you later!