I just went to the most amazing memorial service. Could be the people involved, they're pretty amazing. She's chatty, fun, inquisitive, ok. He's reserved, fun, and pretending not to be interested.
Match made in heaven. They are soulmates in many ways.
He died this past weekend, and I'm used to "southern funerals" where there is either fire and brimstone or judgement, or actually someone speaking well of the dead.
I've never been to a memorial where it was actually what the dead person wanted, it was freaking amazing. I cried, I'm still crying, but everyone had their say, we adjourned to our (his) favorite bar (where they reserved half the bar for the party-------unheard of in corporate restaurant land where we were) and we all hung out and talked and it was good.
Why can't all life (and or death) be this way?