By the way, according to that book I mentioned on the other thread, people born the same day as you include Maria Montessori, Caligula, James Coburn, Richard Gere, Itzhak Perlmann, Van Morrison, Wilhelmina (Queen of the Netherlands), and Alan Jay Lerner. Quite an esteemed crowd!
The book says, "Having a getaway to escape to, a cherished hobby or a secret role which they play far from the public eye is often essential to their psychological well-being" That sounds like our haven of BetterMost, where we find seclusion, friendship, and amusement!