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JennyC:

--- Quote from: rtprod on May 03, 2006, 10:43:55 am ---Great stories everyone.  I've got a quick one -- how about flirting with a really cute gay guy that turns out to be...a "soft butch" lesbian? 

Now THAT one has happened to me.

 ;D

rt

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LOL
So I am not the only one that misreads people’s gender ;D. Guess my reason is more… excusable? :P

I was watching the rerun of The Sex and The City last night.  The show pretty much is the best flirting lesson I got.  It was fun to see the girls flirt with guys (or gals) on the show. Not sure if I can apply any in real life though. ;)

Front-Ranger:
To weigh in on your question, What works? This is what has worked for me:

Women: Make them feel good, compliment them, be totally sincere
Men: Trash them, be rude and dominating, ignore them (of course this doesn't apply to gay guys, you treat them like women, but realize "you're wasting your time there")

sparkle_motion:
When I was 17, I worked at a pharmacy after school. One time, this really cute guy asked "Can I get the phone number?" as I was checking him out (at the register). Me, being a vain teenager, ASSUMED he was asking for MY phone number.
So, I said something really ridiculous like "Oh, but I don't even know you!"
He said "Um, I mean for the store."
I think a little piece of me died that day from embarrassment. I still remember it, 11 years later.
I think I said something like "oh, um, uh, I'm sorry. It's on the receipt."

TJ:

--- Quote from: Front-Ranger on May 03, 2006, 08:48:09 pm ---To weigh in on your question, What works? This is what has worked for me:

Women: Make them feel good, compliment them, be totally sincere
Men: Trash them, be rude and dominating, ignore them (of course this doesn't apply to gay guys, you treat them like women, but realize "you're wasting your time there")


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Oh, I am an openly gay man; but, I have had lesbians friend who had been heterosexually married and it was interesting to hear them talk and complain about their ex-husbands and their statements would be directed toward men in general. However, they were not disrespectful to me at all.

But, real human beings should treat all people with respect  . . . and that is even when you don't like them and/or they hate you with a passion.

Ray:
Hahahaha Sparkle.  Shoulda given it to him anyhooo!

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