Hi Chrissi,
MSNBC is now posting this article and headline about the Jake/ Reese rumors. I'm not going to copy the whole article, but I am including the link here.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34447323/ns/entertainment-access_hollywood/
Witherspoon and Gyllenhaal reportedly split
Actress felt pressured to wed, but wasn’t ready, source tells Us Weekly
I feel bad for Jake.
I kinda have my doubts about some of the things Reese supposedly said. She is written as saying something like - Jake wanted to be together all the time, but with her career and the kids, she couldn't - as if Jake himself didn't have a career that took him away from Reese and the kids.
And it also has her saying something like, she felt she wasn't giving all her energy to her kids with Jake in the picture...well, yeah, when you have an adult relationship as well as kids, you DO have to sacrifice some time in your kids' lives to be with that person.
But I can definitely see Jake wanting to get married. He's young, he wants to start a family, be a family. Why waste the best part of your years with someone when you don't have a future with them?
I feel bad for her kids as well. They've had him in their lives, probably been encouraged to see him as a close friend and now he'll be gone out of their lives.