I echo everyone's thanks. Personally, I appreciate this type of commentary-from a real friend rather than this pseudo friends coming out of the woodwork speaking of him as though they know him. They don't know him. More selfishly, it validates my own feeling for and about him. For some reason I think I get him even not knowing him. When I read these loving tributes I just think to myself "see-I knew it". And mostly it allows me to let myself off the hook for how profoundly his leaving has affected me. People have expressed their "worry" about me but there is nothing to worry about. I am very simply sad and missing what he was to me and what he will never be able to be. I miss the space he took up in my life and very few people really get that.
I showed my boss my new tattoo today and he said, shocked, "I never would have expected you to do something like that". But he doesn't know about me and Heath, he just doesn't know.