Turn the other cheek dear man and move on I say! By the way, I am an old queen too. What a coincidence huh? Now let's behave like gentlemen and get over it.
Oh, are you quite effeminate and prefer to dress in clothes of the opposite sex?
I am NOT effeminate at all and the very thought of not wearing men's clothing and women's clothing instead is repulsive to me.
When I had an account with America Online (AOL), a guy who was mentally deranged and claimed to be "Christian," and yet hated gays and lesbians, decided he would stalk me and find out where I was posting messages. And he would attempt to expose me by pointing out to regulars of the various Message Bulletin Boards (MBBs) where I had an interest that I was homosexual.
In one major subject area where he did that, which was related to education of boys and girls, it was interesting the regular posters there, mostly parents, told him that they knew I was openly gay and did not care. They liked my input into the discussions.
He posted the same stuff in an Independent/non-denominational Trinitarian Doctrine Pentecostal Discussion MBB and I ended up getting a email from a non-Trinitarian Pentecostal woman who copastored a United Pentecostal Church with her husband and she quoted the Hebrew scripture where it is considered an abomination to wear clothing of the opposite sex.
I sent an email back to her and I wrote, "Lady, if you want to come to my home in Tulsa, Oklahoma and look in my closets, my dresser and chest of drawers, you will not find any clothing designed for women to wear. The only time that there are women's clothing in my home is when a woman is wearing them!"