I certainly don't want to see Jake's grief put on display. And, I don't think he should feel rushed to make any kind of statement... and he should be allowed to deal with this tragedy in his own way and at his own pace.
That said... I feel like I'm waiting for him to come forward. I almost can't help it.
It may be somewhat illogical, but I really am. Somehow I feel like it will be a comfort to hear from Jake and I think it's important. Maybe it will happen in a week, a month or a year. But, I hope he does do or say something. It may be a selfish hope, but I'll be honest and say that I *know* deep down that I would truly love to hear from Jake.