Okay, so I am surfing along, looking for a picture of a silk blindfold to add to the gallery, and I come across this little essay...we've been discussing things here as a community, maybe this will open a new avenue of discussion? From my own experience, I would agree with this....In particular, I think the second paragraph may relate to Ennis and Ellery.
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The art of being restrained is the art of trust. Trusting that whoever is in power will not abuse the trust given: this is the beginning of the exciting journey of bondage. The thrill of being tied up and the person of your choice administrating their chosen pleasures on to your body can be an overwhelming experience of joy. When restrained there is no choice other than to surrender to pleasure.
Not many people realise that not only is bondage sensual, it can also be a powerful tool in healing sexual scars. Bondage can give you a deep insight into your or your lover’s fears and be a key to unlock them. Being engaged in the art of restraint puts you or your lover in and out of control. Taking turns with control is powerful. Bondage can open avenues of communication and can be a very caring experience that brings you closer together.
Exploring one sense at a time while restricting the others will allow you to explore every crevice of your own and your lover’s private world. When blindfolded, a whisper in the ear can make skin shudder in delight. The excitement, the sheer anticipation, is wildly erotic. Sound becomes amplified. Touch becomes electric as you fall helplessly into your own world and your senses turn into pure pleasure.