May I ask you to state really if you are gay, lesbian, straight or other ? Detailing would be helpful, (such as now bi, and desire to be gay) ; ( I am trans...), (I want sex change), etc., as you please!
There is no need to detail, and you can as you wish in your post, and posts can be done more than once, but only one time for polling. Polite and civil posts would be great!
If you are a Guest on Bettermost, you have to become a member, (temporarily or more than that is up to you, of course).
You may also ask question(s) if you like. And if you prefer I or someone else to try to answer you, that's OK too!
Have fun ! Take care, au revoir, and hugs!