Bless you Aussie Chris, for all you are doing. I know it is having a very positive and beautiful effect on Chris. I'll just re-iterate here, since a few postings have been made now about energy healing, that using a pillow and imagining a mini version of Chris on it is a really easy and effective way to focus your healing love to Chris's body. To have something tangible--the pillow--to place your hands and their healing/loving intent on, makes it much easier IMHO. Or if you are visually inclined, using pictures like the ones posted here, of the body with chakras and light surrounding it, is also a great way to send light-filled love to our dear friend.
I've even begun to do this practice when I don't have a pillow and I just visualize myself sitting there with one (when I am standing on the subway, for ex) and if I close my eyes I can still feel it working. Aussie Chris is right, even if you feel like you don't know what you are doing, your intent and love are working, and are all that is needed.
Jenny