Scott: INdeed, the narrator of "Wyoming SAnow," feels the same way as you, and treats his partner that way--though they are pretty much strangers. he sort of goes out of his way NOT to be like that., I WISH Sid would send the URL! It's a fine story. he gave me a print out, with no other identifying marks---YURG!
Gee, I thought I had a perfect comeback for anyone who was telling me off...but, being female, and the reference obscure, maybe not...
Can't have anything....