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Celebrating Six Months: How has your life changed...
Ellemeno:
I relate to much of what's been said here. Here's some more -
I am a much faster typist than I have ever been in my life, from all this posting and chatting. I can actually look up at the screen and still type now (something I never mastered in high school typing class).
I know what time it is in London right now, and Brisbane.
To go to Brokie events, I have twice flown out of state without my child, soomething I have never done for any other reason.
I know the waking and sleeping patterns of many of my cyberfriends better than many of my friends right here at home.
I'm not just gay-friendly, now I'm gay-adamant.
When I go into my office at home and close the door, it isn't to be alone, it's to be with you.
I am a "fan" of something. I never liked the idea of being a fan before.
I have a secret life (meaning BBM and you all) that most of my acquaintances and even medium good friends in my real life don't know about, or don't know the extent of.
I have let go of several things I was involved in this year because they didn't really fit me. I have more fully embraced a few things, because they do fit me, and I want to show up more for the real parts of my life.
I have had fewer parties, and more one on ones with people. I have come to realize that I often don't feel as nourished after a party as I do after spending time with one person.
I have engaged in group creativity (the PT thread, the ABC thread, the new Road Trip thread and more) where anyone can contribute what they feel drawn to contribute, and we all appreciate each other's offerings.
starboardlight:
Lee, I totally relate to the idea that we've woken up. I too felt like I was just sleep walking emotionally through my life before. Now I'm more aware of what I'm looking for in life. I'm more aware of the people around me. I'm more open to making connections with people I meet, even in small ways like a smile or a "hello". I'm more aware of the fears that I've repressed for so long. That's a good thing. Now that I'm aware of them, I'm confronting them each and everyday. Even if I don't always win out every time, I'm getting better at it. I can honestly say that I'm a better me today than I was last year. Meeting and getting to know my fellow Tremblayans, I've learned so much. One of the most amazing lessons is that if I just let go of my doubts and fears and simply give into my impulses, beautiful experiences and gorgeous connections can happen. Yeah, because of the film and because of you all, my world is a more vivid reality than before.
Front-Ranger:
That is so wonderful to hear! I'm glad you share my feeling of awakening, and I hope others do too. When I walk down the street, encounter people in the elevator, or connect with people online, I now think that each person I meet might be an Ennis or a Jack.
nerdyjock:
Hello to my community of friends on Bettermost. Although I have not penned anything for awhile, I think of you often and wonder how you are doing.
As for the topic of this thread, yes, my life has changed in small ways. Since I do a lot of traveling, I find that in the last few months I actually say boo to the person sitting next to me on the plane. If someone doesn't share my interests in a sport or a movie, that's fine with me. Flamboyant "gay" behavior used to bother me; now, it doesn't. I realize that the advancement in gay rights were made by those brothers and sisters who were willing to stick their necks out for the benefit of others. Tolerance begets acceptance.
Barb mentioned she is an atheist. That's cool. In order to understand the point of view of an atheist, I am reading, Breaking the Spell--Religion as a Natural Phenomenon by Daniel C. Dennett. Evolution fascinates me.
Occasionally, I will take the BBM DVD with me to play on my laptop when I travel. And if in a conversation with an acquaintance, the topic comes up, I will offer that BBM was the most celebrated movie of 2005. I have never been so proud of a movie as this one. And the hunting scene (where the elk collapses) is very realistic--that was a conversation with my brother the avid hunter.
It's off to catch the red eye in a few hours and I look forward to talking to my neighbor on the flight.
RouxB:
Abe! It is so wonderful to see you posting! I'm happy to hear that you continue to evolve-spending time with you in SF was one the highlights of the trip.
My management life is frustrating but going well-the book you gave me has provided some useful insight and I thank you for it.
Take care and check in more often.
Ruby
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