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ednbarby:
I agree - you do have to *try* to avoid it.  I hope what I've said hasn't come off as saying you should relish it by any means.  I just don't want for you to be too hard on yourself when you have tried and still find yourself slipping back into it from time to time.  That's to be expected.

Daniel:
Hmm, it is the trying to avoid that I think I will have the most problem with. I mean, I'm under a huge impression (and perhaps this is what is possibly the most harmful aspect of this thing) that this feeling is somehow good. It is striving to resolve something, as I have mentioned earlier, and I am eager to allow the resolution to come to its end.

But thank you for your advice. I will try to apply what you have suggested.

Daniel:
Tried to watch the BBM DVD tonight.

I got to the main menu before bursting into tears... lol. That music is pure melancholy, resonating with both beauty and pain. It's the most wonderful experience I can describe, though I'm not really doing a really good job of it.

Sheyne:

Daniel.. *big hug*

I'm sorry you feel this pain right now, honey.  I really am.  I wish I could take it away. I wish I could do something to help you. But all I can give you is a willing ear to listen (eyes to read???) and to reassure you, as Barb already has too, that this feeling WILL pass.  They don't say that love is the most powerful emotion for nothin'.  Not even grief is as powerful as love..  And those are two things that only time can deal with.  Time.  Nothing you do - or DON'T do - is going to magically take it away.  You've been given some good advice from people who have experienced this first hand or understand the nature of it..  Definitely write your stuff down.  Hell, post your thoughts poured out on paper if you like - the type of stuff you've already written is pure and intense emotion and while it may not feel like its helping you... in the long run it will.  Everytime you share a little of what you're feeling, you're offloading the burden rather than suffer it all by yourself.  I admire your guts in sharing all this with us (you're talking to an Ennis with breasts here  :-X )...

Take care, buddy.  I'm sending you a big hug and lots of light, just like Jenny said.
Feel better.
Sheyne.

newyearsday:
Hey Daniel, how are you doing today? It's been a while since the thread was picked up again. I want to suggest some things now that I have had a chance to read the whole thread, but I feel like doing it in PM. So, I will do that now. If you see this soon, I would check them around 9:35 eastern daylight time.

Jenny

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