Once again, thanks for posting this Impish, and I love the friction that's at work here. It's only when things become uncomfortable there is a motivation to change.
As I've mentioned in another post, I really don't think it's reasonable or even appropriate to use BBM as a vehicle for activism, and I'm suspicious of those who want to make it so. It smacks of personal agenda and sensationalism to me.
I agree with a lot of what Karel has to say when he says (paraphrased) equality will only truly exist when being gay is mundane to the point of not even being noticed (this is my dream too). However I do see "bravery" in both Jake & Health. Not because of the film or their roles, or even the line that "straights should not do gay roles" (please), but because they now are being forced into being brave because every time they open their mouths they get accused of something, or get someone offside.
I've listened to the recorded interview with Heath when he said "Fireman are brave, I'm an actor", and it was both humble and insightful. So it seems to me the only ones who think they were brave, or more precisely want to think they were brave, are the journalists themselves. But hang on, isn't Karel a journalist too? Now I'm confused, who or what are we complaining about again?