"Time to go, Cowboy."
Friends, this post will mark the end of my active participation on Bettermost. To me the "town" is no longer the congenial place it used to be, so it's time to pack up the saddle bags and head out.
I have nothing more to say about
Brokeback Mountain, story or film. I am concerned about the direction I see the site heading, from the frying pan of virtually no Moderating to the fire of overly Moderating, with the attendant inconsistencies that are inevitable when the Moderating is being done by volunteer individuals, however well meaning and dedicated they may be--and I know our "Mods" are well meaning, dedicated, and self-sacrificing of their time to take on this responsibility. When, however, your Ignore list has grown longer than the figurative list of people you enjoy interacting with, it's time to do something about that.
I'm not going to ask for my account to be closed. Some friends seem to find it more convenient to communicate through Bettermost PMs than by direct e-mail, and I don't want to shut these people out of my life. So I'll be stopping in from time to time to pick up the mail (maybe use the pay phone across the street from the post office
), and also to keep up with the Social Events forum, in hopes I may also be able to see some of my friends again in person.
This isn't going to be easy. Bettermost has become a habit supported and fostered by me being frequently bored and underemployed at work. But when something that was supposed to be fun, a place of camaraderie and enjoyment, has turned into a source of stress, well, it's time to go. And Christmas seems a good time to say Farewell to my friends, and hope to see you again soon.
I'm sorry if this post embarrasses "the Management," but I don't believe in just disappearing without a word, and it seemed appropriate to me to say good-bye on Chez Tremblay, since it was my Tremblayan buds who what brought me here in the beginning.
Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and
Adios, amigos.J.W.