I see this whole thread as people who cherished and admired Heath grieving him and trying to come to terms in their own mind with the tragic and (IMO) disturbing news concerning the accidental cause of death. This is a message board and that's the way we give voice to our feelings.
No, I wouldn't want to cause Heath's friends and family pain for the world, but I am relatively sure they have had the same reactions that are being currently voiced here. So hopefully they would recognize this for what it is: Bewildered people who loved and respected Heath, dealing with their grief, going through all the common stages and mental processes of bereavement. Hopefully they would realize that this is in fact the background for all the many threads here on Heath's passing, - some of which certainly contain painful matters such as harsh news items, images, - and related discussions.