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silkncense:
Barb & Lynne -
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Now, see that's ENTIRELY different - I rationalize that as complete fantasy, myself . But I daresay that if Jake were an awful actor or dumb as a rock or came across as a total jerk, we wouldn't be nearly as obsessed with him sexually.
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--- Quote from: ednbarby on July 24, 2006, 01:28:33 pm ---BINGO! There are plenty of (almost) equally physically attractive actors out there who meet one or more of those other criteria and as such don't do a thing for me. He does everything for me because he's the entire package, the real deal, the whole nine yards... He's just got it goin' ON. All of it. All the time. Did it just get hot in here, or is that just him? ;)
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So, I won't be seeing either of you over on the "Hot Cowboy" thread? Y'all just don't know what you're missing... ;)
But, in all seriousness, I think if someone is attracted to someone else, either over time or initially, they do fantasize that they have a shot even if in all reality it is ridiculous. So if a straight (male or female) was attracted to someone gay or vice versa, they would generally, without conscious consideration, be disappointed to find out that person is not available to them.
And, I think you will find it does occur vice versa.
Sorry to continue travelling down this distant OT road. AND, I agree that Jake appears to be the whole package - hope that's not just a fantasy.
ekeby:
I think maybe the original question should have been "are wives looking at their husbands differently?" and wondering if they maybe have had hidden bbm relationships. Especially the ones that go hunting and fishing!
Re gaydar: As I get older, I find it works less and less well. Especially with young people. People under 30, forget it. Unless they have an OGT (obviously gay trait)--I have no clue.
ednbarby:
--- Quote from: silkncense on July 25, 2006, 12:20:52 am ---Barb & Lynne -
So, I won't be seeing either of you over on the "Hot Cowboy" thread? Y'all just don't know what you're missing... ;)
But, in all seriousness, I think if someone is attracted to someone else, either over time or initially, they do fantasize that they have a shot even if in all reality it is ridiculous. So if a straight (male or female) was attracted to someone gay or vice versa, they would generally, without conscious consideration, be disappointed to find out that person is not available to them.
And, I think you will find it does occur vice versa.
Sorry to continue travelling down this distant OT road. AND, I agree that Jake appears to be the whole package - hope that's not just a fantasy.
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OK, so it's true - I am just weird. ;) And I don't think it's just a fantasy.
YaadPyar:
--- Quote from: ednbarby on July 25, 2006, 08:59:14 am ---OK, so it's true - I am just weird.
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OMG Barb - why be normal...we've got plenty of that already! Can't imagine that's worth aspiring to.
;)
ednbarby:
--- Quote from: YaadPyar on July 25, 2006, 03:18:37 pm ---OMG Barb - why be normal...we've got plenty of that already! Can't imagine that's worth aspiring to.
;)
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Don't worry - it's not that I mind or anything. In fact I'm rather proud of it. :)
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