Brokeback Mountain wasn't overly popular with most gay men. All one needs to do is read some early reviews in gay-based media. The first time I saw the movie, the theater was filled with faux cowboys all a twitter. Some cackled and carried on during the movie, and went away because it had, in their opinion, a bad ending (the boys didn't live happily ever after) and their wasn't enough sex and nudity shots. Many of these guys let her know about it. Kinda like, "how dare you", "why do gay characters always end up unhappy.....", blah blah. I heard some of these comments from gay guys. Like she stated repeatedly, her story isn't about gays or cowboys for that matter. It is about homophobia in Wyoming in the 1960's.
I went to theater showings weekly until it closed. A months after BBM opened nationwide, the audiences transformed from the faux and cackle to a predominately hetro and female audience. After the movie saturation post Oscar announcements and Golden Globes, there were times when the theaters were filled with mainly straight couples and women couples. I don't reckon these later folks sent her the nastiness she received initially. These people with all the nastiness and finger pointing didn't get BBM. She is absolutely correct. IMO, that coupled with the later fan fic that had J & E as vampires, pedophiles, etc. put her over the top.
There were positive interactions between Proulx and gay fans. One of which was an early member at DCF. He sent her a letter thanking her for the book, and detailed how it impacted he and his partner of 25 years--a couple of guys who happened to live in Wyoming and were close to what J & E would have been had they found their happy little cow and calf operation. He sent me a copy of her response. She was gracious and proud of them. She even invited them to her place, which they didn't jump on as to leave her with her privacy.
Yeah, she did threaten legal action against fanfic writers, and for good reason. To want to "bitch slap" her is childish and immature.
Brad
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