There probably is something that is unresolved and getting daily emails from my ex-partner of twenty years ago is not helping matters. He has to be having troubles with his own relationships to want to get back together with me after twenty years. Of course the answer has to be no on my part and I know that but I was very fond of him twenty two years ago. I will think about what you said. I would rather have no love at all than to be with someone that I can't trust and plus he has a lot of baggage that I don't want to deal with.