Milo, I'm not sure why you think he was a "scumbag" just for telling the truth as he believed it to be? If he had entered the service, and been caught in an act with another man, wouldn't he have been dishonorably discharged anyway, and just gone right back to Hollywood? The way I see it, he just saved himself a trip. Plus, I don't think a buzz cut would have been a good look on him, despite his gorgeous face.
Jeff, I'm curious -- why do you think of him as "self-destructive"?