Mikaela - regarding the violence of TDK. Did you see Batman Begins? How was that for you? What about Point Break? (old Keanu Reeves/Patrick Swayze movie - honestly, i just asked that b/c of the masked robbers scene) I am anticipating that TDK will be violent, but not gory. How do you want us to let you know without giving away spoilers? (trying to be helpful, not nosey or pushy or anything)
I'm so sorry I didn't respond to this sooner, and here you were being extra special helpful and everything!
I have seen Batman Begins, but only on DVD, and I found it boring and predictable. It didn't leave me sleepness, at least not when seen in that small format. I haven't seen Point Break.
Because I think they contain the kind of scenes I try to avoid, I've stayed away from (among others) Apocalypto, Natural Born Killers, American Psycho, Kill Bill, Passion of the Christ, Funny Games, and all the Hannibal Lechter movies except Silence of the Lambs. And that one *did* give me nightmares. Especially the scene with those guards that Lecther slaughters so inventively when he escapes.
And I believe if somebody had made me watch any of the "Hostel" or "Saw" movies I'd probably have never been able to sleep again in my life.
I suppose if I'm to summarize therefore what I'd sincerely like to avoid is "inventive" graphic violence that contains elements of sadism, torture and intentional cruelty, particularly when dwelling on and coupled with powerlessness and protracted fear, anguish and/or physical or mental pain for the victim(s). Long suspenseful passages where it's being indicated that such things are about to happen are not my cup of tea, either. Neither are particularly graphic scenes of wholesale slaughter and gore that dwell on the details of knives, other scary-looking weapons, wounds, deaths and bloodletting complete with panic, screaming, etc etc.
And if any of the above is included purely for entertainment value, without any underlying more or less "worthy" or decent message or point to is, it's even worse.
So.... if any of this turns out to fit TDK, I'd sincerely appreciate getting an advance warning. Without being todl details of single scenes, if at all possible. Hope that was sufficient.