Thanks optom, thanks Mandy, thanks brokeplex, and thanks to others too!!
Wow, your posts are pensive!!
Mandy, you say:
I don't think Ennis would have ever been able to stand a homosexual life with Jack!
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Mandy: Wow, I am surprised!!
And optom you added abiout Ennis:
He would have needed real long term therapy to free his mind,from years of repression,fear,guilt etc.That was not going to happen,on any level,financially,socially etc.!!
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Optom: that surprises me too!!
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And brokeplex: you sure puzzle me too by saying Ennis:
would moving in with Jack have fixed things for Ennis. my answer is no, it would have completely cut him off from his daughters, and made him even more paranoid than he already was.
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Brokeplex: you think that Ennis would have become more paranoid!! Wow, wow!!
May I ask you and all:
And Jack too??
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And, brokeplex, you added:
Jack would have liked living with Ennis for a while, but perhaps the reason their romance lasted as long as it did, was because they did not move in together.
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To you all: so these two gay/straight/bi guys would have such difficulties living together, that they needed to see a therapist even BEFORE moving together, and even, after that, more and more help from a specialist or many specialists??
What if they would have gotten a specialist who is homophobic?
Would Jack stand that homophobic therapist? Would Ennis?
Would either one stand that bigot therapist?
Food for thought?
Awaiting your news,
au revoir,
hugs!!