Considering I'm 41, I wouldn't consider someone in their 40s a "daddy" type. To me, someone who is a daddy is nearer my real dad's age of 71, and that's not what I want.
Get with the program, Honey. A gay "daddy" ain't your father.
And at 41, you're old enough to be one! Congratulations!
And what is a TLA catalogue?
Try googling "TLA video" and see what you come up with. It may be NSFW.