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Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« on: February 15, 2007, 05:07:26 pm »
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Hardaway Displays Honesty and Stupidity

Homophobia Not Shocking, But Hate Hits Low Point
By JASON WHITLOCK
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At first, Tim Hardaway's stupidity provoked a chuckle. He couldn't be serious. Not in these politically correct times. His remarks on Dan LeBatard's radio show in Miami had to be some sort of elaborate skit to promote John Amaechi's book.


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Former NBA star Tim Hardaway said "I hate gay people, so I let it be known"
when asked about former player John Amaechi's announcement that he's gay.



Asked to comment on the former NBA role player's decision to announce that he's gay, Hardaway decided to be John Rocker honest.

"If he was on my team," Hardaway said, speaking of Amaechi, "I would, you know, really distance myself from him because, uh, I don't think that's right. And you know I don't think he should be in the locker room while we're in the locker room. I wouldn't even be a part of that."

That was just Hardaway's warm-up shot. With LeBatard trying to press the brakes on Hardaway's intolerance, Hardaway executed a backdoor cut and slammed home his ignorance.

"You know, I hate gay people, so I let it be known," added Hardaway, a retired NBA all-star. "I don't like gay people and I don't like to be around gay people. I am homophobic. I don't like it. It shouldn't be in the world or in the United States."

Thirty minutes after the interview, Hardaway began his backpedal, offering an apology on a Miami TV station. Too late. The controversy was already in the process of blowing up nationally. NBA commissioner David Stern promptly removed Hardaway from all NBA All-Star Weekend activity in Las Vegas.

And LeBatard was on the horn with Amaechi getting his reaction to Hardaway's comments for a column in Thursday's Miami Herald.

"Finally, someone who is honest," Amaechi told LeBatard. "It is ridiculous, absurb, petty, bigoted and shows a lack of empathy that is gargantuan and unfathomable. But it is honest. And it illustrates the problem better than any of the fuzzy language other people have used so far."

Yep, Hardaway scored points for honesty and stupidity. While perfectly illustrating the kind of hostility an active, out-of-the-closet athlete would face inside a locker room, Hardaway dealt the league that made him rich a black eye and a controversy that could take some of the shine off the NBA's Vegas holiday.

Rather than spend the weekend talking about gambling, stripclubs, escorts and tattoos, Stern's all-stars will be forced to answer another round of questions about sexuality. Trust me, athletes are far more qualified to pontificate about the former than the latter.


More than anything, that's what Amaechi's book release has made clear. We shouldn't ask pro athletes important questions. They've been raised in locker rooms, laboratories for intolerance and ignorance, and had their beliefs fortified by large sums of money and groupies/posse members.

Athletes are not paid to be thoughtful or articulate. They're paid to follow instructions implicitly. They're paid to adhere to a macho code that certainly views gay men as weak.

Should we be surprised that LeBron James and all the other 20-something millionaires flunked Amaechi's Brokeback test and offered less-than-enlightened opinions about homosexuality?

No. And maybe we should be even less surprised that the 40-year-old Hardaway thought it was appropriate to put his homophobia on record.

Money and privilege seem to erode a man's ability to empathize. Once you make it financially in this society, the natural inclination is to forget how and why you made it.

Hardaway's implied reluctance to share a locker room and shower with a gay teammate is somewhat understandable. Most heterosexual men feel the same way. Homophobia is a not a crime. Letting it control your behavior is wrong.

It is Hardaway's expression of hate and the implication he would allow his homophobia to prevent a gay man from working in peace that troubles me.

Hardaway is too stupid to realize that racism and hate denied black people inalienable, American rights for hundreds of years. People with Tim Hardaway's mindset tried to keep people who look like Tim Hardaway out of professional sports and every other highly sought profession.

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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #1 on: February 15, 2007, 05:45:06 pm »
OMG - the utter stupidity!!!!!! >:(

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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #2 on: February 15, 2007, 05:52:56 pm »
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Hardaway Displays Honesty and Stupidity

Homophobia Not Shocking, But Hate Hits Low Point
By JASON WHITLOCK
AOL
Sports Commentary
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"You know, I hate gay people, so I let it be known," added Hardaway, a retired NBA all-star. "I don't like gay people and I don't like to be around gay people. I am homophobic. I don't like it. It shouldn't be in the world or in the United States."
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Hardaway is too stupid to realize that racism and hate denied black people inalienable, American rights for hundreds of years. People with Tim Hardaway's mindset tried to keep people who look like Tim Hardaway out of professional sports and every other highly sought profession.

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2007-02-15 07:39:53

Maybe these people need to see their words in print to realize what they think.
I hope a lot of people read his words, admit they agree with him, and then make the realization that they are wrong wrong wrong.

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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #3 on: February 15, 2007, 06:48:35 pm »
Should we be surprised that LeBron James and all the other 20-something millionaires flunked Amaechi's Brokeback test and offered less-than-enlightened opinions about homosexuality?
:) This reference to you-know-what couldn't help but make me smile in the midst of this otherwise depressing story.

And to Amaechi, way to go! :D We need more like you, sir.

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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #4 on: February 15, 2007, 07:47:45 pm »

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:) This reference to you-know-what couldn't help but make me smile in the midst of this otherwise depressing story.

And to Amaechi, way to go! :D We need more like you, sir.

I was wondering if anyone would notice that!  :)

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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #5 on: February 15, 2007, 07:54:59 pm »
This guy is definitely an asshole. Who does he thinks he is? The worst part of the whole piece is the headline. Displays honesty and stupidity? What is the writer trying to say? Give me a break. Tim Hardaway displayed hatred, pure hatred.
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John Amaechi's Memoir
« Reply #6 on: February 15, 2007, 11:23:03 pm »
Here's Amazon's link to John Amaechi's book, due to be published 2/20:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/new-releases/books/301889/ref=pd_nr_b_nav/002-1773008-2100814

"Book Description
Man in the Middle chronicles John Amaechi’s extraordinary journey from awkward, overweight English lad to jet-setting NBA star. Along the way, he endured endless obstacles to his hoop dreams—being abandoned by his father, being cut from his first college team, recovering from a life-threatening injury, playing for abusive coaches, and losing his mother -- while also protecting a vital secret that could have ended his career: John Amaechi was gay. Now in this poignant and intimate memoir, Amaechi takes us into the hypermasculine world of professional sports and into the very center of his soul. As tender as it is brutally frank, Man in the Middle follows him from the rough streets of Manchester to Penn State (where he first achieved basketball stardom and began to recognize his sexuality) to the cities (Orlando, Houston, Salt Lake City) and countries (Greece, France) in which he played. A moving story of adversity and diversity, Man in the Middle is a testament to the power of one man’s convictions and to the universal desire to make the world a better place.

About the Author
John Amaechi played in the NBA for six seasons and was honored by the basketball Hall of Fame for scoring the first points of the new millennium..."

Sounds promising...and it's #1 on the G/L 'New Release List'.
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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #7 on: February 17, 2007, 02:14:06 am »
Tim Hardaway Update:

(From MSNBC)



NBA Banishes Tim Hardaway From All-Star Game After Anti-Gay Remarks
Thursday February 15 2007
Associated Press (AP)


MIAMI —  The NBA banished Tim Hardaway from All-Star weekend in Las Vegas because of his anti-gay remarks.


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Hardaway, who played in five All-Star games during the 1990s, was already in Las Vegas and scheduled to make a series of public appearances this week on behalf of the league. But after saying, "I hate gay people" during a radio interview, commissioner David Stern stepped in.

"It is inappropriate for him to be representing us given the disparity between his views and ours," Stern said in a statement Thursday.

Hardaway apologized for his comments, which came a week after John Amaechi became the first former NBA player to say he was gay.

"As an African-American, I know all too well the negative thoughts and feelings hatred and bigotry cause," Hardaway said Thursday in a statement issued by his agent. "I regret and apologize for the statements that I made that have certainly caused the same kinds of feelings and reactions.

"I especially apologize to my fans, friends and family in Miami and Chicago. I am committed to examining my feelings and will recognize, appreciate and respect the differences among people in our society," he said. "I regret any embarrassment I have caused the league on the eve of one of their greatest annual events."

Hardaway represented the NBA in Las Vegas this week at a Habitat for Humanity event and a fitness promotion. The former U.S. Olympian was originally scheduled to be an assistant coach at a wheelchair game Thursday night and later appear at the fan-oriented Jam Session.

"I don't need Tim's comments to realize there's a problem," Amaechi told The Associated Press in a phone interview earlier in the day. "People said that I should just shut up and go away — now they have to rethink that."

On a Miami radio show Wednesday, Hardaway was asked how he would interact with a gay teammate.

"First of all, I wouldn't want him on my team," the former Miami Heat star said. "And second of all, if he was on my team, I would, you know, really distance myself from him because, uh, I don't think that is right. I don't think he should be in the locker room while we are in the locker room."

When show host Dan Le Batard told Hardaway those comments were "flatly homophobic" and "bigotry," the player continued.

"You know, I hate gay people, so I let it be known. I don't like gay people and I don't like to be around gay people," he said. "I'm homophobic. I don't like it. It shouldn't be in the world or in the United States."

Hardaway also said if he did find out that a teammate was gay, he would ask for the player to be removed from the team.

"Something has to give," Hardaway said. "If you have 12 other ballplayers in your locker room that's upset and can't concentrate and always worried about him in the locker room or on the court or whatever, it's going to be hard for your teammates to win and accept him as a teammate."

Later that night, Hardaway apologized during a telephone interview with WSVN-TV in Miami.

"Yes, I regret it. I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said I hate gay people or anything like that," he said. "That was my mistake."

Two major gay and lesbian groups denounced Hardaway's remarks.

"Hardaway's comments are vile, repulsive, and indicative of the climate of ignorance, hostility and prejudice that continues to pervade sports culture," said Neil Giuliano, president of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. "And by apologizing not for his bigotry, but rather for giving voice to it, he's reminding us that this ugly display is only the tip of a very large iceberg."

Said Matt Foreman, president of the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force: "Hardaway is a hero to thousands of young people. And that's what makes his comments so troubling. Sadly, his words simply put the pervasive homophobia in the NBA on the table."

Amaechi, who detailed his life in his recent autobiography "Man in the Middle," hoped his coming out would be a catalyst for intelligent discourse.

"His words pollute the atmosphere," Amaechi said. "It creates an atmosphere that allows young gays and lesbians to be harassed in school, creates an atmosphere where in 33 states you can lose your job, and where anti-gay and lesbian issues are used for political gain. It's an atmosphere that hurts all of us, not just gay people."

Amaechi taped a spot Thursday for PBS' gay and lesbian program "In the Life." He said the anti-gay sentiment remains despite Hardaway's apology.

"It's vitriolic, and may be exactly what he feels," he said. "Whether he's honest or not doesn't inoculate us from his words. It's not progress to hear hateful words."

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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #8 on: February 17, 2007, 03:45:19 pm »
I glad that David Stern, the NBA commish, stepped in and banned Hardaway from the All-Star weekend. A lot of people may not like Stern because they believe he interferes too much in the lives of the players, but he got this right this time.
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Re: Ex NBA Tim Hardaway Admits He Hates Gay People
« Reply #9 on: February 18, 2007, 02:47:04 pm »
I went to the movies yesterday and they had this three minute preview for the NBA all stars game, complete with the Blue Man Group and aerial shots of Las Vegas. And all I could think was, the NBA is so passe right now, and I am not sure this will recapture their former glory. I was a huge basketball fan in the 70s and 80s....I was in labor with my first child and watching the Celtics in a playoff game in the labor room! But those days are long gone and the very expensive grasp at the straw that I saw at the movies yesterday really brought that point home.

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