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*Slightly* OT Confessions: How Much is TOO MUCH Before You'd QUIT Someone?

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RouxB:
Sheyne-

And Ray has a surprise for you...

 O0

Ray:
hehehehehehe

Kelda:
Roux, Sheyne, *MWA*

I firmly believe there is someone out there for everyone. I have to believe that. We have to believe that.

They're just awaiting around the corner for us.

Sheyne:

--- Quote from: Ray on May 01, 2006, 02:04:41 am ---Sheyne?!  What am I, chopped liver?!

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No, baby. Just completely unattainable. Which is the only thing worse than chopped liver.. lol.

And you know what I was talking about anyway!!!  :-\

isabelle:

--- Quote from: hungry_hungryhippos on May 01, 2006, 12:58:40 am ---
 I have an autistic son.

It always proves too much for the people who come near my life.  Like the Sarah character, I too, had a very brief taste of the man of my dreams who I worshipped from afar for a long time. I took a risk in telling him and it paid off. For a little while. Predictably, the complications of my life were too much for him and he broke it off.  Perhaps NOT the man of my dreams after all??  Who knows.


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Sheyne, one of my friends has an autistic son. I am not just saying, it's true. Her name is Laurence, if that can make her sound any more real. She is lucky in that her boyfriend is still with her. But I think I can imagine what it is like for you.
Another friend, very close, adopted a child who turned out to be handicapped. She made a big problem out of it whereas it was alright for her husband. Now there are on their way to divorce.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that for the people I know, it has not been a problem for their close ones in their lives, but for themselves. You are perfectly right to talk openly about having an autistic child, and those for whom it proves too much are best left alone. So probably that one was not the man of your life after all.
My friend with the autistic child found support from everyone including her son's school teachers, but also from an association of parents who have the same experience. You might get to meet someone there? Someone for whom it would not prove too much.
On a lighter note, if you have gender issues, why not try girls?? NO, I am NOT on a self-promoting tour here, I was just thinking out loud. Yeah, I am some thinker, I know.
All the best to you. But I believe you will find someone again some day. If you think you need to, but who needs a man anyway, hunh? ;)

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