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Do you forgive or do you hold a grudge?

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Lynne:
It depends...Forgive and Forget is best for everyone, IMO, but sometimes it's hard.  ??? ???

souxi:
Good question David. It really depends on what the other person has done I suppose. I can forgive sometimes, but some things I just can,t. There is really only one person in this world who I will NEVER forgive. If that makes me a bad person, then so be it. Some things are just unforgiveable.

Karan13:

Hey David,
               This is a hard one , i am a soft , loving person i will help anyone i can , sometimes i hate myself for this , as i have been used and taken advantage of because of this . This is down to the heart and mind really , if someone says sorry i will forgive them , but i will not necessarily forget what they have done especially if it is really hurtful , my mind will forgive them but mt heart may not , and so even if i think i have made peace and forgave someone and told myself i will forget about it , in my heart i may not `Really Feel` that i have.
     
I don`t know if this makes sense. I agree with comments about sneeky people i dislike those completely. but if i found someone who i disliked , i knew disliked me equally , sad alone in need of help i don`t think i could turn my back on them.

I don`t know if this makes me sound like an idiot or a saint but thats me . x

David In Indy:

--- Quote from: Karan13 on October 18, 2007, 04:09:50 pm ---Hey David,
               This is a hard one , i am a soft , loving person i will help anyone i can , sometimes i hate myself for this , as i have been used and taken advantage of because of this . This is down to the heart and mind really , if someone says sorry i will forgive them , but i will not necessarily forget what they have done especially if it is really hurtful , my mind will forgive them but mt heart may not , and so even if i think i have made peace and forgave someone and told myself i will forget about it , in my heart i may not `Really Feel` that i have.
     
I don`t know if this makes sense. I agree with comments about sneeky people i dislike those completely. but if i found someone who i disliked , i knew disliked me equally , sad alone in need of help i don`t think i could turn my back on them.

I don`t know if this makes me sound like an idiot or a saint but thats me . x





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Hi Karan!!  :D

Your comments make perfect sense to me! I'm so glad to see you posting here again. I hope you stick around. I miss you when you're not here with us.  :'(

We sure did have some fun over on IMDb a couple of years ago, didn't we? And we weren't very forgiving to the trolls either. But then, they didn't deserve our forgiveness.  >:(

 :D :D :D

Brown Eyes:
I almost alway think that I've forgiven... but the more I look at myself the more I realize that I really do hold grudges despite my best intentions.  I also have a horrible habit of being a bridge-burner.
 :-\

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