I have discovered BBM either 'blows one away' (as it did me--and still everytime I see it) or, like my partner, it's just a good movie. Perhaps I needed it and he didn't. The last time I put the DVD in, he promptly fell into a content sleep, while I latch onto every word and scene.
BBM got me to a place I was enroute to. Was almost there, dealin' with the Ennis that is me, but it was the topping on the cake. My partner was a bit dissed' that it wasn't he who could get me to the end of a long journey--he tried and I put him through hell.
There now, and it feels great.
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