Marcel ProustI've just finished reading Alain de Botton's delightful "How Proust Can Change Your Life."
Filled to overflowing with Proustian angst, pathos and eccentricity, as well as joy and humour in abundance. This book is more an exuberantly exhilarating experience than a mere good read.
The chapter titles tell the story:
* One - How to Love Life Today
* Two - How to Read For Yourself
* Three - How to take Your Time
* Four - How to Suffer Successfully
* Five - How to Express Your Emotions
* Six - How to Be a Good Friend
* Seven - How to Open Your Eyes
* Eight - How to be Happy in Love
* Nine - How to Put Books Down
All of the above advice is given from a decidedly Proustian perspective, which could be defined, in Brokebackian terms, as being somewhat Ennisian in places. Certainly, both Proust and Ennis met their fate in self-imposed, voluntary, internal exile.
I was hooked on this book from the very first paragraph:
"There are few things humans are more dedicated to than unhappiness. Had we been placed on earth by a malign creator for the exclusive purpose of suffering, we would have good reason to congratulate ourselves on our enthusiastic response to the task. Reasons to be inconsolable abound: the frailty of our bodies, the fickleness of love, the insincerities of social life, the compromises of friendship, the deadening effects of habit. In the face of such persistent ills, we might naturally expect that no event would be awaited with greater anticipation than the moment of our own extinction."Don't be put off by the "Philosophy" label. This book is absolutely wonderful.