Leslie if I gave the impression I think your crazy, I apologise. I didn,t mean to give you that impression atall. I simply can,t get my head around why on earth, he would choose to appear to someone he didn,t even know, to let them know he,s ok. If he was going to do that, surely it would be to either his parents, or Michelle, even his daughter, to let them know. I suppose it,s just because I don,t understand. It doesn,t make sense to me, but then none of this tragedy makes sense to anyone, thats what makes it so tragic.