I've just sent Peachy $300 US to cover costs of the two condolence notices plus postage costs for sending me copies of the papers.

We should know soon about the cost of flowers. Hopefully, we'll be able to send a nice arrangement to the funeral. However, if it looks like the family is actively discouraging people from doing that, IMO it may be better to respect their wishes. If we don't send flowers, we'll have all the more money to donate to a charity in Heath's name. Today or tomorrow should give us a better idea of the situation.
Update: 35 PayPal donations totaling $1,229.69. Three via mail totaling $95.00, three more on the way.
Total Contributions to Date = $1,324.69
Total Disbursed for Expenses = $300.00
Balance Available = $1,024.69To would-be contributors: Go here for instructions on how to donate.