I experienced that for a while, that lack of interest in all other movies and the constant thought, when I did see other movies, that they didn't measure up to BBM. The first post-Brokeback movie I saw was
The Squid and the Whale, and I spent the whole time thinking how the symbolism was so obvious, and the motivations were all so spelled out, and the characters were so two-dimensional, and the emotions were so uncompelling, and so on. And that was actually a pretty decent subtle character-driven indie film!
But I probably snapped out of that last spring. I had to, because movies, particularly in the theater, are an important means of escape for me (the other one being this board!
). The turning point, BTW, was
Thank You for Smoking -- probably because it was SO unlike BBM that any sort of comparison would have been absurd.
Of course, no other movie comes anywhere close. Brokeback occupies the first 10 spaces on my favorite movies list. And to tell you the truth, I'm not even sure what No. 11 would be.
But I have favorite foods, too, and that doesn't mean I can't enjoy anything else but those. Same with books and music and everything else. At some point I started telling myself that, sure, whatever movie I was about to see wouldn't be as good as BBM, but it didn't have to be. I could just take it on its own limited terms, as a way to be entertained for a couple of hours. So since then, I've seen a number of movies I have liked a lot. None of them will displace BBM in the top 10 -- most wouldn't even make the top 50, but I had fun watching them anyway.