There's been some discussion on this thread recently about the loss of a pet. Here's an excerpt from
Going Home: Finding Peace When Pets Die by Jon Katz. It's a chapter from the book titled "The Perfect Day". Knowing his dog's life expectancy is short, a man decides to give the animal a day filled with all his favorite things:
"It was a gray morning when the vet told Harry that his dog Duke's heart was failing and that it wouldn't be long before he died. Harry was not surprised, but still, the news depressed him. Listening to the vet, Harry later told me, he'd gotten an idea, one he thought would pay tribute to his life with Duke and give him something to feel besides sadness and loss.
" 'Tomorrow, I'm going to give you a Perfect Day,' he said quietly to Duke as they left the vet's office. He would take the day off from work and create a sweet memory with his dog. It would be a special day, filled with all the things Duke loved most, as close to perfect as Harry could make it. He would take his Canon PowerShot along to capture some images of the day, to preserve the memories."
Much of Katz' book is about his own experiences. His tone is just right for the subject: compassionate, realistic, not over-sentimental but not afraid of honest sentiment either.
"One Perfect Day" at
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/heavy_petting/2011/09/the_perfect_day.html Going Home: Finding Peace When Pets Die at Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Going-Home-Finding-Peace-When/dp/0345502698/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top