I started this thread so I feel a slight pride of ownership--and also feel like I can offer my 2 cents. Overall, I think things are okay. Elle, I understand your concern but I think we have been amazingly good at self-correcting on this thread. And (and it really pains me to write this, but I must), in this post-Heath era, we all realize that it won't be just posting pics of Heath here and there, interviews of his latest movie, etc. So I think we are defining what form our Heath discussions and picture postings will take as we move forward beyond grieving. Yes, discussions may seem "off topic" but it may just be the organic role that Heath plays in our minds, thoughts, and hearts, and we need to bring that out on this thread.
L