I agree with Eric. I dont usually participate in this type of thread because of two things. One I agree with Eric, where there is no right or wrong answer. We each bring our own process to the decision. Even further, sometimes I find myself of one thought, and the next time a different one. The mood of the person is a large part of how you interpret it all. It is as changable as a Wyoming sky. Bright and hopeful, and dark and ominous. Each time you seek the way, it shows you another..
Annie is truly right. Saying each person should finish it themself, in their own mind according to their own mind set. of course that is a paraphrase.